![]() ![]() ![]() Generally speaking, Christians take relationships more seriously than many non-believers. You Should Never Tell a Christian that You Like That You Are Not Looking for a Serious Relationship Right Now So before you make any mention about the distant future with someone, make sure you develop a past with them first.Ĥ. But since you are already talking about your future with this person, it scares them off. They may not dislike you they may just not know how they feel about you. If you talk about your hopes for the future with someone that you like but you don’t really know this person that well yet, they will most likely run from you. ![]() Many Christians will be scared off if they sense that someone really, really likes them when they are unsure of their feelings about this person. Nobody likes to feel pressured, especially when it comes to relationships. You Should Never Talk About Your Hopes for the Future with Someone If You Don’t Have Any Past with Them Yet But if someone is looking for a healthy Christian relationship, they will see it as a red flag if you say something that makes them feel like you are viewing them as an object to possess rather than person to get to know.ģ. Lines like this may work if someone is just looking to hookup. How you doing?” It’s fine to compliment someone’s car or physical appearance, you just must avoid doing this in a way that will make them feel this is the primary reason you are interested in them. Want to go out to dinner?” “I really like your profile picture. Want to go on a date?” “I think you have a beautiful body. As 1 John 2:15 states, “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” So if you make a fellow Christian feel like you are worldly minded, they will avoid you. You Should Never Say Something That Makes This Person Feel Like an ObjectĬhristians are spiritually minded. If the person does not feel any type of connection towards you, don’t ask them to commit anything to you, even if it is a small commitment like giving you their phone number or going on a date. But you have to at least have a good conversation with this person first to form a connection. It’s even possible to ask someone on a date that you just met for the first time. Whenever possible, it’s wiser to form a connection before asking for a commitment. Women, especially Christian women, are highly unlikely to make that type of commitment with someone they barely know. While it’s not a huge commitment to go on a date, it is a commitment of sorts. The execution, however, can be much improved upon. The lack of passivity is to be commended. After lots of prayer and overthinking, they finally walk up to the woman they have been attracted to or had a few brief interactions with, and then ask, “Would you like to go on a date with me?” Many men get tired of being passive, so they finally work themselves up and push themselves to do something out of their comfort zone. But it is a big mistake to make this one of the first things you say. Obviously it’s a good idea to ask someone on a date if you like that person and would like to go on a date with them. You Should Never Ask a Christian “Will You Go on a Date with Me?” If You Have Not Said Much Else to This Person First With that in mind, here are 9 things I believe you should never say to a Christian that you like because they are unwise to say in my personal view.ġ. So even when it comes to liking someone and learning how to best interact with them, he wants you to ask him about this. While there are certainly many more important things in life besides knowing how to interact with someone that you like, we must also remember our God is our loving Father who cares about the details of our lives. God won’t do that if you ask him for wisdom, no matter what type of questions you ask him. To “reproach” means to reprimand or criticize. It just says if you lack wisdom, ask God to help you. Notice that this verse does not put limits on what type of wisdom we are to ask God for. But I believe a good overarching biblical principle for this article can be found in James 1:5, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” So I won’t be adding a Bible verse to each of these points like I do in most of my videos because this is a more subjective topic. But the Bible does call us to live wisely and do things in ways that are loving and bring glory to God. Obviously the Bible is not full of pickup lines and dating strategies. ![]()
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